{"id":5264,"date":"2022-01-03T11:45:44","date_gmt":"2022-01-03T16:45:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/?p=5264"},"modified":"2022-01-11T15:19:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T20:19:11","slug":"a-different-conversation-experiences-of-a-female-college-student","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/a-different-conversation-experiences-of-a-female-college-student\/","title":{"rendered":"A Different Conversation: Experiences of a Female College Student"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>By Leia Silva<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Documentary&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s dark inside&nbsp;my&nbsp;four-bedroom&nbsp;apartment&nbsp;in&nbsp;Orlando, Florida.&nbsp;The year is 2018, it\u2019s&nbsp;my freshman year of college.&nbsp;The&nbsp;brown&nbsp;leather on the couch is peeling, dirty dishes soak in the sink, and&nbsp;a candle labeled&nbsp;\u201cAutumn Leaves\u201d flickers on the dining table.&nbsp;I&nbsp;am&nbsp;curled up in a&nbsp;large&nbsp;plush blanket, sitting&nbsp;close to my roommate, Aria. Our eyes are glued to the T.V. as a Netflix Documentary plays&nbsp;titled,&nbsp;<em>Conversations with A Killer: The Ted Bundy Tapes<\/em>. The&nbsp;audio from the television fills the room.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cIn the early morning hours,&nbsp;through a backdoor,&nbsp;<\/em><em>the&nbsp;intruder<\/em><em>&nbsp;came in&#8230;\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cIt all began about 2:30 A.M.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cFrightened coeds at Florida State University in Tallahassee&nbsp;walked to class in groups today&#8230;\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cHe brutalized them. Two to their death&nbsp;and three to his certainty that he had killed them.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cEverybody\u2019s scared all the time. Even just walking to classes. And today we\u2019ve been keeping our doors locked, during the day too, which we don\u2019t usually do.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An eerie&nbsp;chill begins to creep slowly&nbsp;down my spine.&nbsp;\u201cStop fidgeting,\u201d says Aria. I didn\u2019t even realize&nbsp;that&nbsp;my leg had begun to nervously bounce up and down the side of the sofa. \u201cSorry,\u201d I say, \u201cI just don\u2019t understand how someone could do something like that.&nbsp;They were our age Aria&#8230;&nbsp;our age.&nbsp;They were&nbsp;twenty,&nbsp;twenty-one&nbsp;years old. That could have been us at FSU.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I had been accepted at&nbsp;FSU;&nbsp;Aria had been too. We&nbsp;almost moved to Tallahassee.&nbsp;Instead, we decided&nbsp;to move to Orlando&nbsp;and pursue&nbsp;our&nbsp;degrees&nbsp;at UCF.&nbsp;\u201cI know,\u201d Aria replied. She let out a&nbsp;heavy&nbsp;sigh,&nbsp;and we both sat in silence for a moment.&nbsp;\u201cIt\u2019s just more of a reminder&nbsp;for us that we need to&nbsp;lock our doors.\u201d I sat up looking at her now. \u201cOur bedroom doors too, Leia,\u201d&nbsp;she emphasized.&nbsp;I nodded my head and turned off the T.V.,&nbsp;and&nbsp;we both watched as the screen went black.&nbsp;\u201cI&nbsp;didn\u2019t&nbsp;even realize it was still playing,\u201d she said.&nbsp;I could&nbsp;tell&nbsp;she was&nbsp;worried,&nbsp;and&nbsp;her mind was elsewhere because&nbsp;honestly,&nbsp;mine was too.&nbsp;\u201cLet\u2019s just go to bed,\u201d&nbsp;I replied.&nbsp;The old couch creaked as we stood up,&nbsp;but our footsteps hardly made a noise as we walked to our&nbsp;rooms.&nbsp;I&nbsp;walked inside&nbsp;and&nbsp;listened&nbsp;carefully&nbsp;as the&nbsp;lock clicked&nbsp;on&nbsp;Aria\u2019s door.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Talk<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1024x653.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5322 lazyload\" width=\"647\" height=\"412\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1024x653.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-768x490.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1536x979.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM.png 1540w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 647px) 100vw, 647px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1024x653.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5322\" width=\"647\" height=\"412\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1024x653.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-768x490.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM-1536x979.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.16.10-PM.png 1540w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 647px) 100vw, 647px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s time to get you some pepper spray,\u201d&nbsp;he says.&nbsp;I decided to move&nbsp;to&nbsp;Orlando a week ago, I have been searching for apartments&nbsp;for my first Fall semester.&nbsp;We enter&nbsp;Dick\u2019s Sporting Goods,&nbsp;the&nbsp;linoleum tile floor squeaking under my shoes.&nbsp;I look at my&nbsp;dad, \u201cWhat for?\u201d&nbsp;I ask.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His face&nbsp;turns&nbsp;serious,&nbsp;his eyebrows furrow,&nbsp;and&nbsp;his voice&nbsp;is&nbsp;stern.&nbsp;\u201cYou are going to be living on your own&nbsp;soon. There is a lot of&nbsp;wackos&nbsp;out there and you never know what could happen&nbsp;at any time, on any night,\u201d&nbsp;he responds.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBut&nbsp;I am not going to talk to any wackos&nbsp;Dad, are you kidding me?\u201d I replied. I&nbsp;immediately&nbsp;began to&nbsp;reevaluate my&nbsp;<em>judgment of good character radar.<\/em>&nbsp;I&nbsp;wondered;&nbsp;would&nbsp;I&nbsp;truly&nbsp;be able to&nbsp;tell&nbsp;if&nbsp;someone had the&nbsp;underlying&nbsp;intentions to hurt me?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cLeia, it doesn\u2019t matter if you talk to them or not. A man could have had an ex-girlfriend with big brown eyes and dark hair. He sees you and you remind him of her.&nbsp;And for whatever reason,&nbsp;his craziness&nbsp;that once had&nbsp;nothing to do with you&nbsp;now&nbsp;has gotten you&nbsp;involved.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSimply for being me?\u201d&nbsp;I ask.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cSimply for being you,\u201d&nbsp;he says.&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Suddenly,&nbsp;I begin&nbsp;feeling an impulsive need to&nbsp;change&nbsp;my appearance. What if, I dyed my hair?&nbsp;As we turn the corner together, arriving closer&nbsp;to&nbsp;our&nbsp;designated aisle, I catch a glimpse of myself in the store mirror. I start&nbsp;considering,&nbsp;<em>what&nbsp;do&nbsp;I&nbsp;look&nbsp;like to other&nbsp;people?<\/em>&nbsp;But&nbsp;I&nbsp;immediately&nbsp;shake my head,&nbsp;dismantling&nbsp;that thought&nbsp;of altering my appearance, as I&nbsp;knew that was not the point my dad was trying to make.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt&nbsp;could also have nothing to do with you, it could just be you are in&nbsp;the wrong place at the wrong time,\u201d he says.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cOr, the wrong guy&nbsp;has found me,\u201d&nbsp;I say.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cExactly,\u201d he says as he grabs&nbsp;a two-pack of highlighter pink pepper spray bottles. \u201cPerfect we can&nbsp;give one to your sister too. Just attach this to your keychain so it\u2019s with you all the time. We can practice using it at home in the backyard.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&nbsp;nod and&nbsp;begin&nbsp;to&nbsp;pick my cuticles,&nbsp;ripping my dead skin too far&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;start&nbsp;to bleed.&nbsp;My dad&nbsp;looks over at me,&nbsp;catching&nbsp;on&nbsp;to the anxiety that has begun to swell inside my stomach.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not trying to scare you, but it is better to be safe and prepared, you know?\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI know,\u201d I reply as he hands the cashier his credit card.&nbsp;We leave the store,&nbsp;and I buckle&nbsp;into&nbsp;the passenger&nbsp;seat of&nbsp;my dad\u2019s&nbsp;truck. I take a deep breath and look down at the bottle of pepper spray in my lap.&nbsp;I move it aside and&nbsp;continue&nbsp;to&nbsp;pick my cuticles&nbsp;all&nbsp;the way home.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The&nbsp;Bathroom<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"617\" data-src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1024x617.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5323 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1024x617.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-300x181.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-768x463.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1536x926.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM.png 1602w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"617\" src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1024x617.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5323\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1024x617.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-300x181.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-768x463.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM-1536x926.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.13.05-PM.png 1602w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I stare at the&nbsp;poster in front of me, confined in the&nbsp;tightness of this&nbsp;bathroom stall.&nbsp;\u201cLet\u2019s be clear,\u201d it says in large bold letters. I have seen this poster many times before, in fact, most likely every time I have ever visited&nbsp;a&nbsp;bathroom on campus at UCF.&nbsp;I continue reading, pretending like I don\u2019t know the next line. \u201cRelationship abuse is&nbsp;unacceptable,\u201d it says&nbsp;listing the contact phone numbers for&nbsp;reaching a victim advocate&nbsp;beneath it. I&nbsp;sigh and step out of the stall.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I begin to wash my hands, a girl stands a few feet away from me, tapping her foot and staring at the&nbsp;tampon&nbsp;dispenser.&nbsp;I&nbsp;begin to reach for my lip-gloss to touch up my make-up when suddenly she turns to me. \u201cFunny, isn\u2019t it?\u201d&nbsp;she says with one eyebrow raised. \u201cWhat is?\u201d I ask.&nbsp;She has curly brown hair, pale skin, and an annoyed look on her face.&nbsp;\u201cThat&nbsp;the condoms are free, but the tampons aren\u2019t,\u201d she says irritated.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I glance over&nbsp;to the wall, and there hangs a plastic container&nbsp;full to the brim&nbsp;with condoms. I turn back at her, the stainless-steel tampon machine glaring at me behind her. \u201cI never&nbsp;thought about&nbsp;that before,\u201d I said quietly. \u201cYeah, I don\u2019t think a lot of us do. Anyways, you got a quarter?\u201d&nbsp;I tried to think back to the last time I had a quarter on me and couldn\u2019t. \u201cNo, I am sorry.\u201d&nbsp;She sighs, \u201cIf only tampon dispensers took Apple Pay.\u201d I laugh, \u201cIf only, but here,\u201d I say reaching into my bag, \u201cyou\u2019re lucky it\u2019s&nbsp;my last one.\u201d&nbsp;I hand her a tampon and she begins to smile. \u201cThank you,\u201d she says. \u201cNo&nbsp;worries,\u201d I reply as she enters one of the stalls.&nbsp;I exit the bathroom and wonder&nbsp;if&nbsp;the posters&nbsp;are in&nbsp;the men\u2019s bathroom too.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Thoughts&nbsp;of&nbsp;a&nbsp;Girl Walking Alone<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNever walk anywhere alone,\u201d says my mom, \u201cespecially not a night.\u201d I had just told her that I am taking a class that starts at 6:00 p.m. and ends at 8:50 p.m. every Wednesday. \u201cI know Mom, I know,\u201d I say into the phone, \u201cI\u2019ll be fine.\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am walking to that class now, the crisp&nbsp;fall&nbsp;air nipping at my skin. I&nbsp;am no longer focused on getting to class, I am looking for something else, an&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/police.ucf.edu\/blue-light-emergency-phones\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Emergency Blue Light Phone<\/a>&nbsp;(EBLP). A friend told me once&nbsp;that if I press the&nbsp;red button, it notifies the police&nbsp;instantly, you can&nbsp;even&nbsp;speak to&nbsp;a dispatcher&nbsp;through the speaker.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSo, who are you going to walk with, hmm?\u201d she asks.&nbsp;I don\u2019t hear&nbsp;her;&nbsp;I am still looking around. \u201cHello?\u201d&nbsp;she says. Finally, I spot one. \u201cUh,&nbsp;I don\u2019t know yet Mom, I will figure it out, okay? I gotta go,\u201d&nbsp;I reply. \u201cOkay, well be safe,&nbsp;I love you,&nbsp;bye!\u201d&nbsp;She hangs up and I wonder if there&nbsp;was ever&nbsp;anyone who could not reach the&nbsp;Emergency Blue Light Phone in time.&nbsp;I try to push that thought out of my mind as another one enters, what&nbsp;if there was&nbsp;someone&nbsp;who had bad things happen to them and weren\u2019t near an&nbsp;EBLP&nbsp;at all, or any phone, or anyone?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With&nbsp;my phone&nbsp;still in hand,&nbsp;I am&nbsp;hesitant&nbsp;to&nbsp;get some answers.&nbsp;I&nbsp;click on Safari, the tips of my fingers numb from the cold, and&nbsp;type in \u201cUCF Crime Statistics\u201d.&nbsp;I&nbsp;scroll through&nbsp;the site&nbsp;and&nbsp;find that between&nbsp;the years of 2017 to 2019, 105 incidents of rape were reported occurring either on-campus at UCF, or on-campus residential facilities.&nbsp;Also&nbsp;during that&nbsp;time frame,&nbsp;51 cases of fondling, 135 cases of dating violence, and 152 cases of stalking were reported.&nbsp;Scary.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I lock my phone. I didn\u2019t know that the numbers were that large, but it&nbsp;was&nbsp;even scarier to note that these are only&nbsp;cases&nbsp;that occurred on campus or on-campus residential facilities.&nbsp;Those statistics&nbsp;do&nbsp;not include cases that occur in off-campus student housing,&nbsp;clubs downtown, or&nbsp;the many other locations that surround UCF and make up the Orlando area.&nbsp;I try to stop my brain from thinking about this even more, but I can\u2019t.&nbsp;I debate putting in my headphones&nbsp;and begin to&nbsp;resent&nbsp;myself for walking alone&nbsp;while one last thought enters my brain\u2014these are&nbsp;only&nbsp;the cases&nbsp;that were reported.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Past<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHey, get over here!\u201d&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am in&nbsp;standing in&nbsp;the driveway&nbsp;of&nbsp;my boyfriend\u2019s home&nbsp;in Southwest Ranches, Florida.&nbsp;The year is 2021, it\u2019s my senior year of college.&nbsp;My boyfriend\u2019s older sister,&nbsp;Sarah, waves her arms&nbsp;crazily about trying to get the attention of&nbsp;her dogs. \u201cCome on guys, stop it!\u201d she shouts, as the dogs continue chasing each other around in circles.&nbsp;I laugh&nbsp;as I watch their ears flail&nbsp;about,&nbsp;and&nbsp;both of us can\u2019t&nbsp;help but smile&nbsp;at their craziness.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sarah&nbsp;attended UCF from 2013 to 2016 and&nbsp;graduated&nbsp;with her bachelor\u2019s degree in Psychology, and today she is an Occupational Therapist.&nbsp;I had&nbsp;just&nbsp;told her that I was writing this article, and she&nbsp;revealed to me&nbsp;that,&nbsp;she too,&nbsp;was&nbsp;worried about her safety&nbsp;at times&nbsp;while being a college student.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"652\" data-src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1024x652.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5325 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1024x652.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-768x489.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1536x979.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1.png 1576w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"652\" src=\"https:\/\/cahcms.smca.ucf.edu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1024x652.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5325\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1024x652.png 1024w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-300x191.png 300w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-768x489.png 768w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1-1536x979.png 1536w, https:\/\/cah.ucf.edu\/imprint\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/01\/Screen-Shot-2022-01-04-at-6.18.33-PM-1.png 1576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI knew where most&nbsp;of&nbsp;the&nbsp;EBLPs were on campus, especially when I lived on campus. Whenever I walked around at night, I always had a friend with me. I would&nbsp;never&nbsp;walk around alone.&nbsp;Also,&nbsp;I would always carry my phone in my&nbsp;hand,&nbsp;and I had&nbsp;pepper spray&nbsp;attached to my keychain&nbsp;too,\u201d&nbsp;she stated with a concerned look in her eyes.&nbsp;She paused for a moment as she continued remembering her past.&nbsp;\u201cI remember, my mom&nbsp;would always tell me to make sure I was aware of my surroundings and to park my car in well-lit areas,\u201d&nbsp;she&nbsp;added.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought back to&nbsp;the advice I received from my Mom and&nbsp;Dad. I&nbsp;couldn\u2019t help but wonder how many times similar conversations like that were held&nbsp;with other families, with other worried parents, with other daughters. I began to realize that&nbsp;Sarah had done the same things&nbsp;that&nbsp;I was doing today.&nbsp;I&nbsp;had been&nbsp;standing&nbsp;in her shoes&nbsp;the whole time&nbsp;and&nbsp;I&nbsp;didn\u2019t even know it.&nbsp;I wondered how far back this fear of \u201cWhat if?\u201d or \u201cAm I prepared enough?\u201d&nbsp;went.&nbsp;Whose&nbsp;shoes was Sarah standing in, who was the female college student before her that was scared?&nbsp;Was this worry, this lingering thought&nbsp;that haunted the back of my mind, generational?&nbsp;Would&nbsp;this fear just continue being passed down\u2014forever?&nbsp;\u201cCome on,\u201d she said, \u201clet\u2019s go inside.\u201d&nbsp;I snapped back into&nbsp;reality and&nbsp;tried to laugh like before, as I&nbsp;watched as the dogs chase each other around&nbsp;one&nbsp;last time,&nbsp;but&nbsp;I couldn\u2019t.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The&nbsp;Students<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cI would always call someone or pretend to call someone if I ever felt I was in danger. I saw on social media&nbsp;somewhere that if people know you are in current contact with&nbsp;someone,&nbsp;they become&nbsp;less inclined to hurt you.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Abigail Weisse&nbsp;graduated from UCF&nbsp;with a degree in&nbsp;Biology and two minor degrees.&nbsp;She hopes to become a doctor one day and is currently applying to various medical schools.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cI carry around a&nbsp;self-defense&nbsp;security&nbsp;alarm&nbsp;on my&nbsp;keychain. I have never had a situation where I needed to pull&nbsp;it,&nbsp;but I imagine it would be very loud and effective.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Kira&nbsp;Defreitas-Gayle will graduate from UCF in Spring 2022. Her dream job is to be a&nbsp;full-time&nbsp;editor for&nbsp;fiction novels, but for now she is focusing on becoming a school-counselor.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cI stay alert, I always look around. If I ever see a man start to walk behind&nbsp;me,&nbsp;I walk faster and turn down my music so I can hear his movements better.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Kiarra Crouch&nbsp;will graduate from&nbsp;UCF in&nbsp;Fall 2023. She hopes to have her writing and poetry published one day. She also wants to start her own non-profit organization that supports Black youth in underdeveloped communities.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cAt night&nbsp;I always walked in groups&nbsp;or asked&nbsp;a&nbsp;guy friend to walk me back to&nbsp;my dorm or car.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Kelly Driscoll&nbsp;graduated from UCF with a degree&nbsp;in Advertising and Public Relations. She&nbsp;currently works&nbsp;full time as an assistant account executive&nbsp;for a virtual public relations agency.&nbsp;She dreams of&nbsp;traveling the world and&nbsp;getting a dog soon.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201cI don\u2019t go to campus at night&nbsp;if I don\u2019t have to.&nbsp;But if&nbsp;for some reason&nbsp;I do&nbsp;need to stop by, I always have someone go with me, I will never&nbsp;go alone.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ani Ekanem&nbsp;will&nbsp;graduate from UCF in Summer 2022. She&nbsp;aspires to become financially self-sufficient through one of her many creative endeavors like modeling, creating digital art, or being a freelance make-up artist.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Problem<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have contemplated the perfect way to end this article&nbsp;over and over again.&nbsp;Even from the moment I had the idea for this article, I was unsure of&nbsp;pursuing it because&nbsp;how would I&nbsp;even&nbsp;begin&nbsp;to offer a solution for&nbsp;you,&nbsp;the&nbsp;readers. How do&nbsp;I&nbsp;begin to&nbsp;fix this problem, or&nbsp;is there anything&nbsp;I&nbsp;can&nbsp;even do about it?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Should young women, like myself,&nbsp;enroll in&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/police.ucf.edu\/self-defense\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">self-defense classes<\/a>? Should we&nbsp;continue to&nbsp;walk in groups, or pairs? Should&nbsp;we&nbsp;buy&nbsp;more&nbsp;self-defense weapons like security alarms and pepper spray? Should we&nbsp;continue being&nbsp;fearful and&nbsp;alert&nbsp;during the night?&nbsp;The list goes on and on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if,&nbsp;there&nbsp;is&nbsp;another way?&nbsp;A way in which we do not&nbsp;have to&nbsp;continue to&nbsp;advise&nbsp;young&nbsp;women&nbsp;to&nbsp;take&nbsp;such&nbsp;preventative measures&nbsp;or warn them&nbsp;about&nbsp;protecting themselves, but a way in which we begin to have a different conversation.&nbsp;A conversation that&nbsp;all of us,&nbsp;as a society,&nbsp;as people, need to have.&nbsp;We need to talk about&nbsp;the importance of&nbsp;standing up for someone if&nbsp;we see&nbsp;something wrong.&nbsp;We need to speak to our co-workers, our sons, our fathers, our uncles, our friends,&nbsp;and share&nbsp;our experiences&nbsp;and&nbsp;concerns.&nbsp;We need to question why our society perpetuates this behavior&nbsp;from&nbsp;young women,&nbsp;because&nbsp;why&nbsp;is it&nbsp;that&nbsp;only they&nbsp;are given warnings&nbsp;and advice for their safety?&nbsp;We need to&nbsp;stop encouraging young women&nbsp;to go to absurd lengths to&nbsp;protect themselves and we need to&nbsp;start&nbsp;teaching&nbsp;one another to simply be decent human beings.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alone, I&nbsp;might not be able to&nbsp;this problem, I am just one person. 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