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When he died last month at 91, my dad left boxes and boxes of black-and-white, sepia, and tinted photographs, along with a mahogany crucifix on which the Virgin Mary is suspended. Black hair, probably a horse\u2019s, flows from the Virgin\u2019s scalp and skirts her narrow waist; she has two tiny discs of grey-veined mica for eyes; and her feet are malformed, curving outward like jester shoes. I\u2019d never seen this figurine in my life. I found it in Dad\u2019s pocket a few hours after he died. The oddest thing, however, is that\u2014whether it\u2019s a fault of the woodworker, an act of vandalism, or a consequence of one of my father\u2019s devious moods\u2014the Virgin\u2019s right breast is missing. The left side has an oval hump; but the right side is flat, smooth, and palely smudged as though rubbed vigorously with sandpaper. Along the back of the cross is carved: \u201cTo Amelia, from Dad.\u201d<\/p>\n
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We shared many irreverent jokes; neither of us were orthodox Christians. But this figurine, I admit, makes me uneasy. Why is her breast sanded down? Can a single object inflect the narrative of an entire life?<\/p>\n
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Dad loved dolls, that I knew. He was the only man I\u2019d ever met who kept an extensive collection of them\u2014enough to fill an entire closet. As a child, I could never step foot in that uncanny sanctuary (or, to my mind, mausoleum) without chastisement; although at times, when he was out photographing the mountain landscapes and mountain people\u2014the thing he loved to do above all others\u2014I\u2019d sneak in and caress their porcelain faces, turn their eyeballs to the left or right, or, when I was especially lonely, embrace them carefully without altering their positions.<\/p>\n
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\u00a0<\/em>There were big dolls and little dolls; conventional ones and quirky ones. I remember waiting for him in his Model T as early as nine years old while he hunted for dolls in drug stores and dusty furniture shops that made my allergies act up. The last doll he bought was in an antique store in Brevard, North Carolina; it was gigantic, dark-haired, with arms as pale and thick as split oak slats (I don\u2019t know why this doll, in particular, finally satisfied his collector\u2019s heart and completed his coven). He photographed them all, but of this Virgin Mary there are no extant photographs.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dad was what you might call a shutterbug. He conceived of life as an album of images. His memories, for the most part, were tied to particular photographs he\u2019d taken at one time or another. He entered Kodak contests and lost them. He wrote Kodak often complaining about their overrepresentation of northern urban photographers and the relative neglect of southern rural ones in contests; he wrote them about their new products; he wrote them about copyright law. I remember falling asleep to the ring-clack and furious metallic swings and snaps of the typewriter.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n In the 1920s and \u201930s, during the decline of tenant farming and in the heyday of folk photography, each town or hamlet in rural America had its resident photographer (Dad was born in 1889 and I in 1909). Men and women from Hemlock Cove, Olto, Judaculla, and Gallow Hollow frequented Dad\u2019s studio and the Attic Window darkroom. They\u2019d come with baskets of huckleberries, lovely foot-high April morels, and birch sap candy especially for me. They had names like Mossie Reynard, Earl Palmer, Gideon Laney, Imogene Bascom, Reinfried Romanes, and Max Straub. Like my dad, none of them made a splash in the photography world. At best they placed a few pictures in the Atlanta Journal <\/em>or Audubon<\/em> magazine.<\/em> But Dad never kept friends long. He\u2019d get into some bitter dispute with them about aesthetics or the superiority of a particular strain of vegetable. He had so many of these short-lived artist friends who shared and exchanged photographs with him that it\u2019s impossible for me to know which of the tens of thousands of photographs he left behind are in fact his. The overwhelming majority are, certainly, but the outliers I can\u2019t identify. My eye isn\u2019t sharp enough and perhaps his style wasn\u2019t distinct enough.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Throughout our lives, Dad and I would venture to the obscurest regions of our property, which was five square miles of oak, creek, and granite dome. He called our home in the cove Amelia\u2019s World, because I spent all my time there gardening, walking, and writing while he was off taking pictures. We\u2019d search for lonely abandoned chimneys from the nineteenth century\u2014the relics of the crude cabins of Cherokee and frontiersmen, which often tilted dramatically on uneven ground. These one can find all over western North Carolina, hidden in rhododendron coves: creek rocks rising twelve feet high layered with clay chinking and reinforced with rope, hair, and hog\u2019s blood; the splintered horizontal slats made of poplar. Over time, bees bored into the chinking\u2019s hard pottery. Sometimes we\u2019d light a fire in one of these crumbling hearths and smoke would pour out of the holes.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dad\u2019s death was a painful one. It feels almost irreverent to speak of it. The few distant cousins who visited struggled to keep their hands from their faces. He had bulging sores resembling purple tomatoes, some split open and oozing as if struck by the blight. His body was like a neglected garden at the onset of winter. I dabbed his sores with a cold cloth day and night during the final struggles. His last wish was for me to cover him with his dolls. His face glowed as he tossed and turned, coughing, spitting up fluid and blood; it jutted out from the top of the porcelain and cotton bodies so that it seemed he wore a grand, puffy Elizabethan dress with ivory lacework.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dad had many sayings: \u201cthe best and worst things in life are errors of the stars\u201d; \u201cwe\u2019re just searching for a lucid interval\u201d; \u201cour knowledge is a journey from ruin to ruin.\u201d These cryptic maxims I\u2019ve found myself pondering in the days since his death. Over time, we came to share a similar philosophy. We believed travel outside Appalachia, for instance, would not edify the mind. Close observation of oneself and one\u2019s immediate surroundings is the key to parting the curtains of mystery, however briefly; sense impressions decay into a precarious reality and the laws of nature can change at any moment. But we never held our breath awaiting those changes.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Some of his quirks I picked up. We both preferred corncob pipes with bowls cured with apple butter; it made the brightleaf tobacco from our garden taste sweeter and heavier than molasses (I\u2019m smoking an old corncob right now at my writing desk; my hand shakes more than in the past and I pull the smoke with less vigor, but I experience the same relish as in my early adulthood). Neither Dad nor I owned a mirror. On the rare occasions we looked at our reflections, we did so in the convexities of tablespoons, and only then out of a sense of curiosity, never vanity or self-critique. We should move through life, Dad said, like a living soul in love that knows it\u2019s loved in return, that doesn\u2019t desire more or less as it stands on the bridge between self and other. That was his roundabout way of saying that we should accept our insignificant selves as they are.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I remember the winter it snowed and never let up, the flakes hissing and shifting on the branches, rocks, and roofs. In a fit of rage one day, due to some accident in the darkroom that ruined a batch of prints, Dad threw his ice-crusted walking stick against the wall\u2014and it\u2019s still stuck there. Somehow the tip wedged perfectly between two boards. We thought it quaint to leave it. In later years the walking stick reminded us of that long brutal winter and cut us with nostalgia, remembering the faerie cabins we built with pebbles and bark; the chunks of granite we heated in the stove and used to warm our feet; the icy shock of creek water in our throats; the night we glimpsed a freak offshoot of the northern lights weaving blue and violet nets around the moon; our midnight feasts on crystallized honey; and reading the Gospel of Thomas <\/em>aloud until we drifted to sleep.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Living with Dad was not always easy. Rarely did we get on each other\u2019s nerves, but there were times, especially towards the end, when he\u2019d come in needy and sulking, desiring compliments. For sixty-plus years we\u2019d discussed the people and places he photographed and the prints he left lying about the kitchen counter or that he had genuine questions about, which my untrained eye could help him clarify. When his body and spirit began to fray, however, he started leaving<\/p>\n photographs in places I\u2019d find when I was alone: on my writing desk, bedspread, and rocking chair; in my tackle box, where I kept my rocks; and in my jewelry box, where I kept some beloved, much-read letters from an old flame. In the garden I once found a Polaroid caught in corn silk. It was a portrait of a woman I\u2019d never met. She had sensuous lips that turned down at the ends and a bold beautiful forehead. Her eyes were closed; a horny crust, some kind of skin condition, populated her eyelids. The next day Dad asked me about it. Was it good or bad? Should he submit it to a magazine?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The first few times he did this I told him how moving the photographs were. I patted him on the back and flicked him affectionately on his balding pate. But as time passed, it angered me that he wanted me constantly to be his praiser and applauder, his confidant in art\u2019s triumphs, failures, and transgressions. I wanted nothing more than the communion of easy laughter and the intimacy of long silence. That was how it had always been. It hurt to alter my attitude toward him, to play a role other than daughter. In the final two years his liberal spiritual convictions began to wear thin, and I suspected he was becoming secretly zealous in a manner he was embarrassed to admit to me, given our long history of unorthodoxy and light heresies. He\u2019d hide himself away in his workshop reading a copy of the New Testament that he\u2019d picked up at the Baptist church down the road. Once, when he lost his pipe, and we couldn\u2019t find it anywhere in the cabin, I heard him mutter: \u201cMy God, why hast thou forsaken me?\u201d I laughed. I thought it was a joke, but his expression was solemn. In spite of these things\u2014which I\u2019ve hesitated to commit to paper\u2014he was my only friend and would\u2019ve carried the cross or burned for me. An elegy, unlike a eulogy, should be honest in its longing for souls no longer in reach and should not shirk the hard truths of a complex life.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n On the end table, there\u2019s a browning, half-eaten peach with Dad\u2019s bite mark still intact. I can\u2019t throw it away. I think of how often he fretted, especially after he turned eighty, that all the peach trees in North Carolina were dying. He carefully documented their mutilations after the April freeze. He didn\u2019t go exploring the mountains and rivers as far as Asheville anymore, but stayed near Amelia\u2019s World, beekeeping, making muscadine wine, and worrying over our failing orchard. He often related dreams of worms, molds, and hard white blights like baby teeth infesting the fruit.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n For some reason I can\u2019t help but connect the missing flesh from this half-eaten peach\u2014where Dad\u2019s long, rabbit-like teeth scored as deep as the stone\u2014with the Virgin Mary\u2019s missing breast; and I can\u2019t help but connect her missing breast to my motherless life. Of all people to have no photographs of, I have none of Mother (never \u201cMom\u201d). Dad took hundreds of the goat man who visited the byways of Appalachia once a year in his junk-filled wagon pulled by goats; he has thousands\u2014literally thousands\u2014of pictures of purple martins feeding their young from perches in hollowed-out gourds hanging from poles. None, however, of Mother. Dad only started documenting the still, silent world after her death; in his photographs, the mysteries of loss were lulled into chemical innocence.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Mother passed away a few weeks after childbirth when I was two years old (my brother was stillborn). I was too small to remember her. Like clockwork, once a month (during the entire seventy-one years I lived with Dad, up until those final weeks), I\u2019d walk into the house to find him drinking sassafras tea in the kitchen and crying, almost silently, his shoulders heaving. Few things made me so uncomfortable. It transformed me into his parent. I\u2019d always pretend I didn\u2019t see and pass quickly through the room. He never detained me but once. On that particular evening he spoke about Mother, how she had been feverish before she died. She didn\u2019t rave exactly; she was lucid, just bathed in sweat and bright-eyed. She related certain visions: Christ in the desert, hovering, suspended in the air by magnets; a fiery cross erupting on the forehead of a goat; breaking a rock and seeing the face of Jesus inside it. The last vision she related, however, was more intimate.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n She told of a day in Oberwolfach in southern Germany, the evening before she and Dad started their long journey to America. They\u2019d decided not to go walking in the windy autumn hills above the village. She couldn\u2019t remember why they\u2019d stayed indoors; maybe they needed more time to pack. But in her vision they had, indeed, gone walking in the hills that day; they\u2019d held hands; they\u2019d kissed each other\u2019s imperfections; they\u2019d talked about what North Carolina might be like as they made for a gap in the trees, where the sun flooded the dim evergreen forest like a bomb\u2019s light.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0 <\/p>\n Dad, you were good to me. You were strong and gentle and careful as a mother. I\u2019m a seventy-one-year-old woman now. When I smile the hundreds of wrinkles on my face hurt like paper cuts. It\u2019s a testament to you that I have no fear of the darkness or the light. As I rotate this effigy of the Virgin Mary back and forth under candlelight, I want to glean more details, to see its mica eyes flash at me. I know that this object is some kind of provocation from you; a sign that I should rethink my life, my past and future, even at this late stage. It makes me wonder what other secrets you kept from me in that red-lit darkroom and in that closet of dolls, which did not replace me, exactly, but acted as a surrogate for something I can\u2019t understand. What perversions, mean hates, and desires so naive and saccharine as to be almost scandalous did you hide from me? And where shall I go now? What shall I do? If I crack open the Virgin\u2019s wooden skull, will there be a ball of mica inside it, a mineral brain not so different from my own? Will a thought rise from it like smoke?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The sky is the dark orange of persimmon beer as I finish this elegy. Orion, the hunter constellation, sparkles along the trees but Sirius has yet to appear above the hill. Perhaps I have twenty more years left, and I\u2019ll die at 91, just like you. But with this inexplicable figurine in my hand, what tables shall I turn to honor, spite, or abandon you? 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